Sublime

bewilderment

loss of self-esteem Beverly

outer-directed stage

head banging

affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days)

consider how the relationship meets your needs

She became threatened by my friends and began cutting them down. She said bad things about my business, my past, my values, my pride—anything connected to me.