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How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self
Nicole LePera • 2 highlights
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The narcissistic parent cannot tolerate the child’s subjectivity.
Your separateness is experienced as criticism. Your needs as attack. Your autonomy as abandonment.
So the child disavows the self.
She becomes a mirror, as Winnicott would call, a false self, constructed to... See more
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Nicole LePera • How To Do The Work: Recognise Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self


I looked around me—really looked, as if for the first time. It’s not an exaggeration to say that every single one of my clients who came to me for psychological treatment also had underlying physical symptoms. Long out of school, I started to ask new questions: Why did so many of my clients suffer from digestive issues, ranging from irritable bowel
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