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Our work is an intricate dance between support and confrontation.

consider how the relationship meets your needs

Kathy’s message is that you may know on some level if the relationship is just wrong, but it requires listening carefully to the inner voice. You

a woman is fulfilled through talking about the details of her problems.

A masculine partner who can truly respond to feminine emotionality with playful skill, clarity, feeling, and grounded presence is remarkably valuable. And it goes without saying that men wanting to cultivate this capacity must start with themselves. She’s right: if you can’t handle your own storms, moods, fears, and grief, how in the world can you

Early in her career, she tried to understand people by asking how others treated or mistreated them. As she matured, she found it more useful to ask, How do you treat others? How do you make them feel?

find the place in you that wants to feel her needs and desires every day, or let her go so she can find someone who wants to offer her that gift.

If you open yourself up to it, the invisible network linking the perfectionist profiles can enhance every aspect of your life.

You Hold the Cards to Interpersonal Relationships