Sublime

Masculinity, as I define it, is the result of resting in a state of depth while tethered to an embodied consciousness that is infinite and immutable. It’s also transmitting that sacred and timeless connection in our movements, decisions, and ways of being in the world. In this way, our activities become offerings to create freedom and clarify

The crisis of masculinity is a crisis of awareness, feeling, and leadership.

process. Living from your masculine (or feminine) essence

A radiant and powerful feminine partner wants to know you can feel and express consciousness through your body; she also wants to see you press that consciousness into the world as a powerful mission. She will be disappointed if you don’t display your depth fully to the world, if you instead choose to prioritize material comfort, or if your life is

It was the idea of a “pathless path,” something I found in David Whyte’s book The Three Marriages. To Whyte, a pathless path is a paradox: “we cannot even see it is there, and we do not recognize it.”⁠1 To me, the pathless path was a mantra to reassure myself I would be okay. After spending the first 32 years of my life always having a plan, this

A masculine partner who can truly respond to feminine emotionality with playful skill, clarity, feeling, and grounded presence is remarkably valuable. And it goes without saying that men wanting to cultivate this capacity must start with themselves. She’s right: if you can’t handle your own storms, moods, fears, and grief, how in the world can you