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If she perceives that you are trying to impress her with your money, though, she will then lose attraction. This is because only lower-value people try to impress—such behavior is considered DLV. If you are trying to impress, you must be of lower status and thus unattractive.

Caution: Do not establish eye contact and then fail to approach—and then think you can use that eye contact later to approach her. If you do this, you have stalled out the set. By breaking the Three-Second Rule, you risk her thinking you wanted to approach yet chickened out.

Mystery, he also had a reputation for befriending younger students just so they’d take him to parties. I invited Ross to his first event the following week. Monica, a struggling but well-connected actress I’d sarged, had invited me to her birthday party at Belly, a tapas bar on Santa Monica Boulevard. I thought it would be a good scene full of beau

Within three seconds of spotting a woman you are attracted to, you must open her set. The approach must be reactionary, and this is what the Venusian artist trains for. Decide now to train for this, and internalize the Three-Second Rule. Just walk right up to the set of people that you see and open them before your approach anxiety exceeds your des

The delivery of canned material is often more important than the content. Women have a finely tuned intuition for the subtle behaviors of a man with high S-and-R value: his eye contact, tone of voice, body language, and so on.

A single scenario has no obstacles. There she is. Approach her straight out. Don’t wait for eye contact—too needy. Just approach her, and when she looks up at you, look her in the eye and smile. Always smile on the approach. It’s less threatening.