Sublime

people who place their mental well-being over immediate convenience.

They’re not cognitive adaptations or sinful impulses.

Instead of having a well-integrated sense of who they are, emotionally immature people are more like an amalgam of various borrowed parts, many of which don’t go together well. Because they had to shut down important parts of themselves out of fear of their parents’ reactions, their personalities formed in isolated clumps, like pieces of a puzzle

duplicitous