Sublime

The Ideal Lover knows how to conjure up this kind of magic. Appeal only to people’s physical side, as many amateur seducers do, and they will resent you for playing upon their basest instincts. But appeal to their better selves, to a higher standard of beauty, and they will hardly notice that they have been seduced. Make them feel elevated, lofty,

The most important points I remember were about: Eye contact Giving compliments Mirroring people

If you are going to sell, you may as well spend your time with those who are most likely to want to buy.

killer combination is high open-minded, high conscientious, low neurotic.

Then, once you have made them uncertain of you and of themselves, reignite their hope, making them feel desired again.

Persuading someone to give you what you want starts with intimately knowing that person and caring about who they are and what they need.

Get rid of any moralizing tendencies, adopt the seducer’s playful philosophy, and you will find the rest of the process easy and natural.

Because total childishness can quickly grate, the most seductive Naturals are those who, like Josephine Baker, combine adult experience and wisdom with a childlike manner. It is this mixture of qualities that is most alluring.

Remember: When a man projects confidence, a woman experiences the same kind of chemical reaction in her brain that a man experiences when a woman lifts her shirt and shows him her breasts. Even if she isn’t available or you aren’t her type, she will still feel the “buzz.” It’s biological. Use this evolutionary response in your favor.