Sublime

“It must be me. I’m flawed,” you decide. You blame yourself

That’s why growing up without being seen, known, understood and approved by your parents leaves its mark upon you.

In my work with people in the helping professions, I have often been confronted with a childhood history that seems significant to me. • There was a mother* who at the core was emotionally insecure and who depended for her equilibrium on her child’s behaving in a particular way. This mother was able to hide her insecurity from her child and from ev

Built into our human brains from birth is an intense need for attention and understanding from our parents.