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Jessica Bennett • Feminist Fight Club: An Office Survival Manual for a Sexist Workplace
experience of womanhood.
Jia Tolentino • Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion

Jia Tolentino’s 2019 essay in The Guardian, “Athleisure, Barre and Kale: the Tyranny of the Ideal Woman”, which resonates even more today: “Most pleasures end up being traps, and every public-facing demand escalates in perpetuity.”
Hannah Marcus • Competitive Wellness

Like Jane, Emma has been broken by the cultural psychosis that tells women to cram a lifetime’s supply of open self-interest into a single, incredibly expensive day.
Jia Tolentino • Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion

the ideal woman seeks all the things that women are trained to find fun and interesting—domesticity, physical self-improvement, male approval, the maintenance of congeniality, various forms of unpaid work.