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you are probably depriving your woman of her fullest capacity of heart reception and expression, which is evoked by relaxed, loving, watery hours of your fearless and unstressful genital penetration.
David Deida • The Way of the Superior Man: A Spiritual Guide to Mastering the Challenges of Women, Work, and Sexual Desire
The orientation is one of sexual union as a meditation in which the intelligence is handed back to the genitals.
Diana Richardson • Tantric Sex for Men: Making Love a Meditation
The ideal of lifelong monogamy as the only proper goal for relationships is so deeply buried in our culture that it’s almost invisible: we operate on these beliefs without even knowing we believe
Dossie Easton • The Ethical Slut, Second Edition: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Adventures
Sexual performance included learning about position and sexual roles in certain positions; how adolescents should act during sexual activity with sexual partners; and how sex should feel.
Roger Ingham • What Do We Know About the Effects of Pornography After Fifty Years of Academic Research? (Focus on Global Gender and Sexuality)
“In the face of recent revelations about the reckless and self-indulgent sexual conduct of so many of our elected officials, it may be worth recalling that sexual restraint rather than sexual prowess was once the measure of a man.”33
Timothy Keller • The Meaning of Marriage: Facing the Complexities of Commitment with the Wisdom of God

Rob’s sexual fantasies clearly functioned as an antidote to the feelings and fears that were holding him back in bed.
Michael J. Bader • Arousal
writes. I suspect that Garth’s quest for sex on the outside is a
Esther Perel • The State of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity
During sex with his wife, he would often imagine a strong, happy woman tying him up and playfully having sex with him.