Sublime

A good man—what comes to mind when you think of a that? Often it’s someone in baggy khaki pants and unpolished shoes with a tucked-in polo shirt that doesn’t fit properly. He spends his life wrestling with insecurities and trying not to do bad things.

Lars is a fairly typical Nice Guy when it comes to his needs. Nice Guys generally focus their attention on meeting everyone else’s needs while trying to be “low maintenance” kinds of guys themselves.

represents a challenge to everything Nice Guys believe about what they must do to be loved, get their needs met, and keep their world calm.

You need three guys in your life now more than ever. #1 Barnabas . Find a guy who encourages you. For a few years now, I've enjoyed a weekly video meeting with a group of guys. Seek to build intentional friendships by finding common interests. You need an associate—a Barnabas . #2 Paul . Paul mentored others. Ask God to guide you in searching for a

Nice Guys frequently seek the approval of women, and convince themselves they are different from other men. They like to believe that they are not selfish, angry, or abusive—traits they link to “other” men.

a gentleman.