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Gavin de Becker had written a great book on the topic—The Gift of Fear.
Barry Eisler • The Killer Collective
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Gavin de Becker • The Gift of Fear
SIGNALS AND PREDICTIVE STRATEGIES PINs (pre-incident indicators) FORCED TEAMING LOAN SHARKING TOO MANY DETAILS UNSOLICITED PROMISES TYPECASTING DISCOUNTING THE WORD ‘NO’ THE INTERVIEW RULE OF OPPOSITES LIST THREE ALTERNATIVE PREDICTIONS JACA (Justification, Alternatives, Consequences, Ability) RICE (Reliability, Importance, Cost, Effectiveness)
Gavin de Becker • The Gift of Fear
The Killer Across the Table: Unlocking the Secrets of Serial Killers and Predators with the FBI's Original Mindhunter
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When the alarm bell of the emotional brain keeps signaling that you are in danger, no amount of insight will silence it.
Bessel van der Kolk • The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
The Hopelessly Insecure Man. This man is related to the proud and arrogant type, but is less violent and harder to spot. His ego is fragile, his sense of self insecure, and if he feels himself deceived or attacked, the hurt will simmer. He will attack you in bites that will take forever to get big enough for you to notice. If you find you have
... See moreRobert Greene • The 48 Laws of Power
The unsafe person is in a state of situationally induced paranoia; they are put in a position of terrible alertness', as Sedgwick observes in her essay on paranoia. … The threatened individual can only ensure their safety by feeling unsafe, by maintaining a constant state of anticipatory vigilance. This is the emotional logic of the threatened
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