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Gavin de Becker • The Gift of Fear
Gavin de Becker had written a great book on the topic—The Gift of Fear.
Barry Eisler • The Killer Collective
thirty minutes of disturbing images presented with artificial urgency and the usually false implication that it’s critical for you to see it.)
Gavin de Becker • The Gift of Fear
“People should learn to see and so avoid all danger. Just as a wise man keeps away from mad dogs, so one should not make friends with evil men.” —Buddha
Gavin de Becker • The Gift of Fear
When we don’t have clear limits, we can expose ourselves to unhealthy and destructive influences and people.
John Townsend • Boundaries in Dating: How Healthy Choices Grow Healthy Relationships
When the message we receive from another person is “You’re safe with me,” we relax.
Bessel van der Kolk • The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma
No weapon in the arsenal of the controlling person is as strong as the guilt message.
John Townsend • Boundaries: When To Say Yes, How to Say No: When to Say Yes, When to Say No, to Take Control of Your Life
SIGNALS AND PREDICTIVE STRATEGIES PINs (pre-incident indicators) FORCED TEAMING LOAN SHARKING TOO MANY DETAILS UNSOLICITED PROMISES TYPECASTING DISCOUNTING THE WORD ‘NO’ THE INTERVIEW RULE OF OPPOSITES LIST THREE ALTERNATIVE PREDICTIONS JACA (Justification, Alternatives, Consequences, Ability) RICE (Reliability, Importance, Cost, Effectiveness)