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What happened to you as an infant has a profound impact on this capacity to love and be loved.
Oprah Winfrey • What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing
It is easiest to change insecure attachment patterns as a child.
Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
This second style has been called anxious attachment (Bowlby),…
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Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
We all use identification as a way of connecting with our parents. We become “chips off the old
Michael J. Bader • Arousal
My hope is that understanding these influences will lead us to better understand ourselves and, most important, to complete the developmental tasks and heal the injuries that resulted from insufficient mothering.
Jasmin Lee Cori MS LPC • The Emotionally Absent Mother: A Guide to Self-Healing and Getting the Love You Missed
They may decide to find other ways to cope, to get care while protecting themselves from hurt. They develop an insecure attachment relationship.
Connie Dawson • Growing Up Again: Parenting Ourselves, Parenting Our Children
both partners can hear each other’s attachment cry and respond with soothing care,
Sue Johnson • Hold Me Tight: Seven Conversations for a Lifetime of Love
Giving the Love That Heals: A Guide for Parents (New York: Pocket Books, 1997), p. 214.