Sublime

In 2007, I launched four, four-week online Dating Essentials for Men courses. These courses were a compilation of what I had learned through trial and error and a lot of fucking practice. The courses became an instant success because they offered a breath of fresh air from programs that teach men to be cocky/funny, spin plates, or use canned pickup

Find people who are able and willing to help them meet their needs

Trying to be a good lover

Forming relationships with women who are angry, sick, depressive, compulsive, addicted, unfaithful, or otherwise unavailable

Puts the Nice Guy in charge of his own sexual needs ■Removes dependency on unavailable partners or pornography

these realities will only become liabilities if you believe they are.

In reality, Dating Essentials for Men is about expanding your social and emotional intelligence – I just use men’s desire to get laid and find love as the motivation for helping them grow up and become interesting people.

If you know you can get out, you can date several women and risk getting all in with the women who look promising. And you can do so without the fear of being trapped and smothered.

what one man can do another man can do.