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Learning Love: Build the Best Relationships of Your Life Using Integrated Attachment Theory
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In Quest of the Mythical Mate: A Developmental Approach To Diagnosis And Treatment In Couples Therapy
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for example, tensions such as the conflict between mutually supportive feelings and sibling rivalrous ones; between greed and selfless efforts to help the other; between the desire to immerse oneself in the comforting waters of the group and the fear of losing one’s precious individuality; between the wish to get better and the wish to stay in the
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Adult attachment designates three main “attachment styles,” or manners in which people perceive and respond to intimacy in romantic relationships, which parallel those found in children:
Amir Levine • Attached: Are you Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the science of adult attachment can help you find – and keep – love
The culture which holds, recognizes, and remembers the institutional balance is the culture of ideology. It takes its most obvious form in the domain of work but can (and usually does) operate just as powerfully in the construction of loving relations which get organized around the exercises and preservation of one or both parties' self-contained
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Tamara wasn’t unique either. The theory explained her behaviors, thoughts, and reactions, typical for someone with an anxious attachment style, with surprising precision as well. It foresaw her increasing clinginess in the face of his distancing; it predicted her inability to concentrate at work, her constant thoughts about the relationship, and
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