Mounica Veggalam
@mounica_v8
Life and leadership coach. Deeply curious about causing self-transformation for joyful accomplishment.
Mounica Veggalam
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- Stated another way, freedom to win is freedom to get smarter in the sense of a given finite game.
Freedom in a finite-game sense is always freedom-to-win (and therefore, freedom to stop playing at some point). That’s the conclusion Sam arrived at two weeks ago. You graduate and level up to a qualitatively different finite game; one that requires you... See morefreedom and Living From Possibility
Freedom to win is still within the context of a finite game.
- To figure that out, we have to get good at seeing human thinking in 3D.
from Page Not Found — Wait But Why by Tim Urban
In life design we know that there are countless possibilities but aren’t stymied by that fact. We revel in exploring a few possibilities, then taking action by starting with a choice. Only by taking action can we build our way forward.
from Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life by Dave Evans
Rather than hoping things are better in the future, what if life could be meaningful and purposeful now, by living in line with what matters most to you? You still get to strive towards change and achievement with all your strength, but you are not waiting for a meaningful life, you already have it.
from Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before?: The Sunday Times bestseller, with over 1 million copies sold by Julie Smith
Life is not going to turn out in future. That is hope as a defense mechanism. Life is brimming infinite possibility right now in this moment because it’s empty and meaningless. And it’s empty and meaningless that it’s empty and meaningless.
condition your mind to see the possibilities, the potential in life. If we all did this, the world would be a very different place.
from She Means Business: Turn Your Ideas into Reality and Become a Wildly Successful Entrepreneur by Carrie Green
- Life is an endless unfolding, and if we wish it to be, an endless process of self-discovery, an endless and unpredictable dialogue between our own potentialities and the life situations in which we find ourselves. By potentialities I mean not just intellectual gifts but the full range of one's capacities for learning, sensing, wondering, understand... See more
from Personal Renewal
I don't know what I'm doing. Would you want to dance knowing what you're doing? But in our culture, you're not allowed not to know. It's shameful not to know. It's the way we already always are. There's an opportunity to develop a certain relationship with not knowing in here that will give you a more powerful access to what is worth knowing.
from Speaking Being by Bruce Hyde, Drew Kopp
“Develop a relationship to not knowing”
A participant whose concern is her relationship with her employer can recognize, in another participant's discussion of his problems with his mother, the same existential structure that is at the source of her own problem. Thus The Forum leader regularly exhorts participants to "listen from your own concerns."
from Speaking Being by Bruce Hyde, Drew Kopp
Generosity will break your heart. It will heal your Love threshold. You will realize that everybody needs your love. You don’t have to love everybody. That’s too hard; don’t start there. Just begin to notice how much everyone needs and wants to be loved. Let it soften and open your heart.
from Coaching From Essence: Create a Thriving Practice Doing Powerful Work With Clients You Love by Robert Ellis