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friendship tips that actually work: > you only get a 5-12 hours of real social time per week - protect them for people who energize you, not drain you > reach out within 48 hours of meeting someone cool. the momentum dies FAST. text them before you overthink it > create friendship rituals:... See more

Your analog hobbies aren’t collecting dust because you are ‘inconsistent’ 💌  it is just harder to choose them when we’re running on autopilot. This year, if you have your heart set on going analog or having more analog hobbies, try: ✅ Lowering the barrier ✅ Matching your... See more

Much appreciation for @voluntaryisminaction sharing this information. The first 5 days of 2025 have been scary. We need to take care of ourselves and we need to organize. Here’s one important aspect of both. ・・・ Your digital footprint is constantly being tracked and followed. Taking control of your online presence is... See more

For many neurodivergent people, love isn’t performative. It’s steady. It’s quiet. It’s shown through consistency, shared space, repetition, and care that’s practical rather than dramatic. This isn’t a lesser version of affection. It’s what love looks like when it’s shaped by a different nervous system. Love doesn’t need... See more

a mini guide to ways you can ✨actually✨ support disabled folks this month (and hopefully every month)! Image descriptions pinned below in the comments for resharing! also, just a reminder I’m a disabled queer asian artist who sells prints, stickers, pins, and t-shirts through my online shop... See more