୨ৎ imo.

The reason to avoid lying is that the brain is not type safe. Lying to others and lying to yourself are the same motion.

it's weird that at a given age, 45 say, someone can't just write down the compressed/compiled topline notes on everything they've learned about life, and then just hand that to someone at 20, saving them 25 years of lessons. why that doesn't work is a somewhat instructive Q