the mind stuff
- The challenge is not to eliminate conflict but to transform it. It is to change the way we deal with our differences
from Getting to Yes: Negotiating Agreement Without Giving In by William Ury
Solarev added 4mo ago
We say of some things that they can't be forgiven, or that we will never forgive ourselves. But we do - we do it all the time. -- Alice Munro, Dear Life
Solarev added 5mo ago
Here are some rules of thumb that might help you navigate whatever practice you are trying out.
- Criticizing, judging, or assessing yourself isn’t virtue. It doesn’t help in meditation; it’s just more noise. And if you are criticizing, judging, or assessing yourself, don’t criticize that, and so on, until you wear out and compassion enters.
- Criticizin
from John Tarrant : Articles by John Tarrant
Solarev added 5mo ago
- Question: How can I judge myself less harshly and appreciate myself more?
Ram Dass on self-judgment:
I think that part of it is observing oneself more impersonally. I often use this image, which I think I have used already, but let me say it again. That when you go out into the woods and you look at trees, you see all these different trees. And some ... See moreSolarev added 5mo ago
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