You have to want the lifestyle, not just the outcomes. Otherwise, it doesn't make any sense being jealous. The results of success are usually public and highly visible, but the process behind success is often private and hidden from view. It's easy to want the public rewards, but also have to want the hidden costs."
What I've learned from running is that the time to push hard is when you're hurting like crazy and you want to give up. Success is often just around the corner.