Lover Girl
It’s not about giving a fuck about everything your partner gives a fuck about; it’s about giving a fuck about your partner regardless of the fucks he or she gives.
Mark Manson • The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck: A Counterintuitive Approach to Living a Good Life (Mark Manson Collection Book 1)
limerance (amigeist - a new extreme love phenomenon)
The remaining seven characteristics were then analyzed and sorted by most impactful. Findings of the distinguishable limerence characteristics appeared with the following frequency counts in the records of extreme love experiences. Women were much more likely than men to show evidence of limerence
... See moreLimerence is the mental state of being madly in love[1][2] or intensely infatuated[3][4] when reciprocation of the feeling is uncertain. This state is characterized by intrusive thoughts and idealization of the loved one (also called "crystallization"), typically with a desire for reciprocation to form a relationship. This is accompanied by... See more
Limerence - Wikipedia
my hottest take is that belaboring a breakup is an addiction but I don’t think y’all are ready for that one yet #relationships #relationshipadvice #hottake #crush #wlw #queer #bisexual #limerance
haleyjakobsoninstagram.com“I want to be noticed in a crowded room. I want to be the only person in a crowded room. I want to be wanted, truly wanted, and desired. I want to laugh and to sing and to dance with someone and not feel self-conscious over it because I love them and I’m confident that they love me. I want to be touched and kissed and held because I’ve forgotten
... See moreLiana Cincotti • Picking Daisies on Sundays
It’s not a skill to make someone feel desirable. It’s not impressive to crave a body when you don’t even know it’s grief. I am not hard to want. But I am hard to hold. Hard to know. Hard to get close to.
Amira • Don’t match my freak, Match my yearning
What accounts for this hesitation? Why do we love committers but act like browsers? I think it’s because of three fears. First, we have a fear of regret: we worry that if we commit to something, we will later regret having not committed to something else. Second, we have a fear of association: we think that if we commit to something, we will be... See more
Pete Davis • Dedicated: The Case for Commitment in an Age of Infinite Browsing
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