Life Advice
unoptimal and
Life Advice
unoptimal and
be suspicious of the teachings of any playbook or framework. your exact context is different from what the advice-giver or framework author have experience with.

Find a compass, not a map. A map might give you directions from A to B, but a compass will help you find true north wherever you are.
Human life is not a competition in which everyone places somewhere between one to eight billion. That’s because each person has different capacities, aims, relationships, projects and identities. These are all relevant to deciding what a good life is for them.
- NYT magazine, The Ethicist, Kwame Anthony Appiah