tpot/twitter

thinking about doing a thread on "how to become ingroup", I'll jot some notes here while I make my omelette - don't talk about ingroup before you're ingroup - don't talk about outgroup b/c it increases your legibility which decreases your ingroup potential - poast but esp. reply

I've done a few events as a first timer/solo, and Vibecamp is, by far, the best place I've been for most people to come to alone, bright eyed and bushy tailed, to find the Others.

from your POV, what are some of the most important memes in your tpot? eg "focus on what you want to see more of" or "you can just do things" what else? I'm thinking about making a subculture taxonomy

tpot: you’re in if you wanna be in If you’re not sure if you’re in, you might be If you don’t wanna be in then you’re not If you divide the world only in terms of whose in and who isn’t, then you’re not

One of the best parts of repeated tpot gatherings is seeing the same people after long intervals, being in their presence after a year or two, And noticing “oh wow, they’ve changed so wonderfully! This stuff works!”

The original and best way to build relationships on Twitter is to engage with people's tweets in a thoughtful, friendly way. It's obvious when you step back: we all want relationships with people who care about what we think. Reply guys (gender neutral) stay winning.

I don't remember who said this but a framing I really liked for "reply game" — treat the tweets on your timeline as if they are messages in your inbox personally sent to you, and reply like how you’d reply to a friend sending that message