How to Live

Beautiful words from The Strength In Our Scars by Bianca Sparacino 🤍 “You’re going to realize it one day that happiness was never about your job or your degree or being in a relationship. Happiness was never about following in the footsteps of all of those who came before you; it was never about being like the others.... See more

It’s not the moment in front of you that’s the problem; what you’re doing inside about the moment in front of you is the problem. To start letting go of this part of yourself that is always complaining, worrying, anxious, scared, angry, irritated, insecure, or ashamed, you must first let go of this part of yourself in... See more

Time to post this one again! It’s a yearly tradition. A note that this is really for folks living in the Northern Hemisphere — if that’s not you, save it for six months from now! /// I’ve said it once and I’ll say it a thousand times: it’s hard to be a good animal when you are a human living inside capitalist systems of oppression. We have... See more

My anxious attachment style makes emotional conversations feel like emergencies. I used to tackle this sense of urgency by looping in those around me ASAP. Ultimately, this led to conversations in which I didn’t communicate in the way I wanted to or give the other person time to get their thoughts together. I’m trying... See more

I’ve reblogged a version on my tumblr that has more information provided by butts-bouncing-on-the-beltway about what they mean by their comments/how they came to those conclusions and it has links to different articles and journals. If you wanna check it out just go to my linktree and click on my tumblr and it should be the first thing to come up... See more

If the world feels too heavy, that’s your sign to lighten up. ✨ Not by ignoring reality, but by making sure you don’t get buried under it. Joy isn’t frivolous. Beauty isn’t indulgent. Rest isn’t weakness. These things keep you whole so... See more

Time to post this one again! It’s a yearly tradition. A note that this is really for folks living in the Northern Hemisphere — if that’s not you, save it for six months from now! /// I’ve said it once and I’ll say it a thousand times: it’s hard to be a good animal when you are a human living inside capitalist systems of oppression. We have... See more

How to stay calm (without any hacks) Greg Isenberg nails it with this system.