Communication
So important~
Communication
So important~
Listening is an everyday social art, but it’s an art we have neglected and must learn anew. Listening is more than being quiet while the other
Active listeners: § Don’t interrupt. § Don’t respond hastily, as soon as an opening becomes available. § Don’t play a “one up” game to try and match each point made. § Don’t jump to conclusions. § Don’t judge what is being said too quickly. § Don’t interject with an unsolicited or premature solution. Instead, active listeners: § Probe for
... See moreCalvin Coolidge famously said, “No man ever listened himself out of a job.” It is only by listening that we engage, understand, connect, empathize, and develop as human beings.
“You cannot truly listen to anyone and do anything else at the same time.”— M. Scott Peck, author of The Road Less Traveled
The energy required for the discipline of bracketing and the focusing of total attention is so great that it can be accomplished only by love, by the will to extend oneself for mutual growth. Most of the time we lack this energy. Even though we may feel in our business dealings or social relationships that we are listening very hard, what we are
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