ADHD
why socialising drains you while everyone else seems fine
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Just being ourselves becomes a guise, behind which we fashion ourselves to be – in the worldly scale of values – someone who counts.
When your authenticity is an act, something’s gone wrong | Psyche Ideas
Useful personal traits are cultivated in interaction with the appropriation of unusual or unusually combined objects, experiences, styles and identities – a rare breed of dog, special cooking techniques, the obscure knowledge of sneaker brands, an offbeat musical style, a novel sexual orientation, and so on. Together, they’re put to work as the bas... See more
When your authenticity is an act, something’s gone wrong | Psyche Ideas
Performative authenticity is tied to economic success and social prestige, which means – and this is a further paradoxical feature – that your specialness and self-realisation have to be performed. In order for people to distinguish themselves, they must seek attention and visibility, and positively affect others with their self-representations, pe... See more
When your authenticity is an act, something’s gone wrong | Psyche Ideas
n his book The Society of Singularities (2017), the German social theorist Andreas Reckwitz argues that a larger ‘authenticity revolution’ has swept the world during the past 40 years. The register of values has shifted, he shows, away from anything standardised and regular and toward objects, images, services and events that are regarded as being ... See more
When your authenticity is an act, something’s gone wrong | Psyche Ideas
In der Arbeitswelt war ich dann am sichersten, als ich es geschafft habe, dass Menschen mich für eine Performance dieser Art gehalten haben. Extra authentic, extra edgy, aber nur in dem Rahmen, der zu ihrem Bild eines Kreativen gepasst hat. Ich versuchte zu lernen, in welchem Rahmen ich meine ‘Edginess’ ausleben durfte, ohne in unsichere Gefilde zu kommen. So ging es mir bereits in der Schulzeit, als ich gleichzeitig ausgelacht und bewundert wurde: Du hast immer dein Ding gemacht, du warst immer so anders und hast das einfach durchgezogen. Aber sobald ich den Bogen sozusagen überspannte, etwas außerhalb ihres Bildes einer angepasst-unangepassten Person getan habe, wurde ich belächelt, beschämt, ausgeschlossen. Ich war immer somehow “anders”.
A nice thing about having ADHD is that it makes it very difficult for the world to exploit you for labor that isn't aligned with your passion. I'm mostly thankful that I spent little time paying attention in class, didnt study or do homework, didn't thrive in corporate environments, and spent that time daydreaming, working on projects i wasn't "sup... See more
j⧉nusx.comLeider ist es dennoch möglich. Und hat oft besonders schwere psychische Folgen für die Betroffenen. Wenn du High Masking / High Functioning bist, bist du sehr wohl in der Lage, entgegen deiner Präferenzen zu arbeiten, so wie ich es viele Jahre lang getan habe. Die Kosten waren allerdings hoch.
Is psychiatry and psychology co-opting neurodivergent; a socio-political term?
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🔥 ADHS am Herzschlag ablesbar? –
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