You Need a Budget: The Proven System for Breaking the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Cycle, Getting Out of Debt, and Living the Life You Want
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You Need a Budget: The Proven System for Breaking the Paycheck-to-Paycheck Cycle, Getting Out of Debt, and Living the Life You Want

Instead, ask yourself: What do I want my money to do for me?
If your sprint feels intolerable after a couple of weeks, you’re probably moving at just the right pace. Keep going. You have a goal and you can do this. You’ll go back to normal life soon. This will be worth it.
Rule Two prompts you to break those bigger expenses into monthly installments so you’re prepared to pay them when they hit.
Thirty minutes should be plenty of time to recap the prior month and set a plan for the one ahead. You’ll get better at this the more you do it.
Write down your quality-of-life goals even if you don’t have money to assign to them right now.
Our individual approach to money sometimes stems from our upbringing.
We don’t have a system for making decisions.
Systems are very important
I stress the importance of yours, mine, and ours when it comes to the source of your priorities, but the exact opposite is true when it comes to the source—and location—of your money. At YNAB we encourage couples to keep all their money in one joint bank account.