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One of the central myths of American romance right now is this notion that you and your partner should be able to tell each other anything and everything I am begging you not to do this

Vivid Void x.com

99% of romance is never expressing true feelings to women you’re actually interested in. That’s why I created this twitter account, use this as an alter ego can’t imagine a single girl ik irl dating me if they knew how emotionally expressive I am. Sad, but real, but true..

Soul on ice x.com

i see this sentiment all over, mostly by men. so i'm just gonna ask women, in a committed long term relationship, is it true that explaining what you want ruins it for you? sexually and otherwise?

taoki x.com

I am often amazed at how couples can be up on the minute details of each other’s lives, but haven’t had a meaningful conversation in years. In fact, such transparency can often spell the end of curiosity. It’s as if this stream of questions replaces a more thoughtful and authentically interested inquiry. When the impulse to share becomes

Esther Perel • Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence

people overestimate how bad it is to marry someone who tends to be upfront about concerns and underestimate how much damage can be done by a spouse who’s not comfortable expressing sources of discomfort or unhappiness

eurydice x.com