you won’t believe how much peace you get once you start tuplizing *everything*. e.g. instead of arguing about where to eat with your gf, just ask her how strongly she feels. she’s like “thai, 9.” you’re like “italian, 6.” done. turns into math, not war. similarly feelings & other sensations can be better understood by you & your mind if they are just low dimensional vectors. & once you vectorize your thoughts & comms, life turns into gradient descent on mutual discomfort (this includes yourself).