you won’t believe how much peace you get once you start tuplizing *everything*.
e.g. instead of arguing about where to eat with your gf, just ask her how strongly she feels. she’s like “thai, 9.” you’re like “italian, 6.” done. turns into math, not war.
similarly feelings & other sensations... See more
signüllx.comyou won’t believe how much peace you get once you start tuplizing *everything*. e.g. instead of arguing about where to eat with your gf, just ask her how strongly she feels. she’s like “thai, 9.” you’re like “italian, 6.” done. turns into math, not war. similarly feelings & other sensations can be better understood by you & your mind if they are just low dimensional vectors. & once you vectorize your thoughts & comms, life turns into gradient descent on mutual discomfort (this includes yourself).
When I have a disagreement with a girl now, I export my entire chat history with her into AI and ask it to analyze the conversation, then paste the results to her
There is absolutely nothing she can do; it's a brutal mog
I then tell her to contact me after she has spoken to AI... See more
I think a problem behind the whole therapy speak phenomenon is that people are trying to like.. Yang the Yin. As in: people feel like the only way to get their feelings taken seriously is to present them as firm & objective fact, which ends up vibing incongruent/condescending.
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