@heynibras Love transforms because it connects you to something beyond yourself, rewiring effort as devotion. When love fuels you, it aligns your inner being with the task, making difficulty irrelevant. While personalities may shape how love manifests, the experience of love melting…
Stuart Evans added
Love is a connection that is caring, intended for good, respectful of freedom, and genuinely sensitive to another’s needs, even making those needs as important as our own. This shift in attention to the needs of others deflates our own sense of self-importance. What power love has to help us let go of ego!
David Richo • How to Be an Adult in Love: Letting Love in Safely and Showing It Recklessly
But being in love can be transformed, so that blind attachment, selfishness, and domination are replaced by the capacity to understand and bring happiness to the person we love, without demanding specific conditions and expecting something in return. To transform being in love in this way is to transform an internal formation.
Thich Nhat Hanh • Transformation And Healing: The Sutra on the Four Establishments of Mindfulness (Buddhims)
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Alex added
When we surrender to the force of love and discover this higher level of relatedness, we feel radiant and connected not just to another person but to all of existence. We also feel that the universe is becoming more whole through our unity with each other.
Patricia Albere • Evolutionary Relationships
Love is the passionate search for a truth other than your own; and once you feel it, honestly and completely, love is forever. Every act of love, every moment of the heart reaching out, is a part of the universal good: it’s a part of God, or what we call God, and it can never die.
Gregory David Roberts • Shantaram: A Novel
“Love arises from within ourselves as an imaginative act, a creative synthesis that aims to fulfill our deepest longings, our oldest dreams, that allows us both to renew and transform ourselves.” Love is at once an affirmation and a transcendence of who we are.
Esther Perel • Mating in Captivity: Unlocking Erotic Intelligence
Love is the energy which expands, opens up, sends out, stays, reveals, shares, heals.