“I’ve never seen any life transformation that didn’t begin with the person in question finally getting sick of their own bullshit” – Elizabeth Gilbert
Oliver Burkemanx.com“I’ve never seen any life transformation that didn’t begin with the person in question finally getting sick of their own bullshit” – Elizabeth Gilbert
People don't change until they are sick of being sick. You need to contemplate the idea of where your life is heading every day for the next month, minimum. You need to finally be honest with yourself that the discomfort of your current life isn't something you are willing to tolerate, because if you don't hate it, you will tolerate it.
Dan Koe • you weren't born to be an NPC
i’ve been asking myself — am i going to let this go without a fight? am i really going to spend the rest of my life calling myself “lazy ambitious” like it’s a cute quirk?
no. because at some point, that’s not a personality. it’s just a way to avoid responsibility. i kept blaming circumstances, timing, lack of support. but the truth is, it was me.... See more
no. because at some point, that’s not a personality. it’s just a way to avoid responsibility. i kept blaming circumstances, timing, lack of support. but the truth is, it was me.... See more
lazy ambitious. the worst kind of stuck.
And that understanding?
It’s painful. It’s confronting. It’s uncomfortable.
But it’s necessary. Because no real change happens until you face yourself without turning away.
It’s painful. It’s confronting. It’s uncomfortable.
But it’s necessary. Because no real change happens until you face yourself without turning away.
hasif 💌 • Be obsessed with your own life
The transformative moments in my life only came when the pain of staying the same finally became greater than the pain of changing.