You tend to be resentful when your partner lacks in qualities that are your personal superpowers
Secure relationships are mostly just relationships with a relatively equal power balance. If you're insecurely attached & chronically frustrated w your relationships, one of the most fruitful questions you can ask yourself is which position of power you feel most comfortable in.
Heidi Priebe šāāļø is in motionx.comany qualities you resent or reject in others, you are unable to embody yourself.
if someone is overly social or openly speaks their mind and that makes you uncomfortableāuntil you look at *why* that doesnāt sit well with you, those characteristics will remain unavailable to you.
Isabelš»x.comAnd it is also easier to recognize the source of negativity in your partner than to see it in yourself. It can manifest in many forms: possessiveness, jealousy, control, withdrawal and unspoken resentment, the need to be right, insensitivity and self-absorption, emotional demands and manipulation, the urge to argue, criticize, judge, blame, or
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