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The goal is not to be better and better. The goal, every day, is to simply feel where you are and accept it. What is happiness, after all? Happiness is enjoying yourself as you are right now and connecting to other people as they are . That’s it. You don’t have to change anything. You don’t have to win anyone over. You just have to savor this day.
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How to Stop Trying to Be Better
very liberating to make peace with the fact that I am not an entirely good person, that there are times when I am bad, I do hurtful things, that there are people who will never be able to look past my mistakes. because what matters is despite it all, I still try/want to be good
jusdani.substack.comx.comWhen we have a down day, we don’t think: I never want to feel this way again. Why? Because it is not fun, but it’s also not unbearable. Mostly, though, we are somewhat aware that small failures are a regular part of life; we are imperfect but trying our best, and that vague discomfort will pass eventually.