I regret to inform you that the entry fee for having "high agency" is you take responsibility for ~everything

Blame yourself for everything, and preserve your agency.

I cannot help but feel, after reading Jung, Nietzsche, Dostoyevsky, Camus, Meister Eckhart, Aldous Huxley, Ram Dass, Krishnamurti, that they all are saying essentially the same thing: the goal is individual responsibility; the goal is a radical self-maxxing.