17. If you can’t say “no” easily, you can’t be trusted.
You can’t be trusted if you can’t say no.
How to build trust:
1. Speak your truth, even if it’s scary.
2. Be with someone in their truth without needing to fix it.
3. Say no without fear of attack or abandonment.
4. Say no the way you give a gift.
Joe Hudsonx.comIf people can trust me to say no, they know I am fully committed to my yes.
The Power of No
**Trustworthy Yes Requires No**
- If you can't say no, your yes isn't trustworthy.
- People pleasers struggle with saying no, which compromises the authenticity of when they say yes.
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- If you can't say no, your yes isn't trustworthy.
- People pleasers struggle with saying no, which compromises the authenticity of when they say yes.
Snipped from Modern Wisdom - #884 - Nick Pollard - How To Stop Being Such A People Pleaser.
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