I really love my boyfriend, but he is pretty much against emotional expression. He doesn't like to say those three little words that women (Western, at least) oh so love to hear. He also doesn't like to give compliments (or even acknowledgments, I won't be greedy), whether it's about me personally, or about something that I have done in an attempt... See more
throw_away_china_dayreddit.comWhat do Chinese men expect from a relationship with Western women?

How this exchange goes in a normal, healthy, loving, non BPD relationship:
Girl: “You’re not someone I would hookup with, but marry”
Guy: “So you wouldn’t be interested in hooking up with me if we met in a bar or something?”
Girl: “Sorry, no! That came out... See more
But my body does not like them. One man talks about his failures in a tone that implies he's uncomfortable with himself, like somewhere deep down a part of him believes he's a bad person, and it seems that many of his bids for social approval are attempts to be reassured that he is in fact okay.
I get it, humans - me included - are like this... See more
I get it, humans - me included - are like this... See more
