Worship. Adoration. Valence.
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Worship. Adoration. Valence.
🌸 Why is it that the things women love are often the punchline, while the things men enjoy are treated as cultural landmarks?
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Original thoughts and perspectives by The Meraki Project — edited with the assistance of AI
instagram.comWomen dress for women and secretly want the male gaze
The longer I live, the more it seems like outfits at work and in life are for female approval rather than for myself or some misplaced desire to get male approval. So tiring. Imagine how much money women would save if not for this thing we impose on each other.
Separately, women seem to want the
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