I realized that being in the driver’s seat of my own life was exhausting, and became aware of the pipeline between submission and surrender—how fucking good it feels to be relieved of the need to decide, both in the bedroom and outside of it. That’s part of why I’m fascinated by tradwives—women whose lives to me lack liberation and ambition, but to... See more

This is why the wellness industry sells regulation as serenity. Why calm women are praised as healthy women. Because your body’s agitation might be accurate. Your inability to settle might be wisdom. And that threatens everything. Embodied women feel their hunger and honour it. She feels her exhaustion and rests. She feels her rage and trusts it.... See more