If you google “The postpartum body”

just like any other businessmen, only dressed up in sweatpants and logo tees.

democratization of the types of men and women we see in aspirational positions.

The hypocrisy is stunning – all sorts of sexually charged images of girls in bikinis revealing their derrieres and hoicked-up cleavages are fine, but a woman feeding her child in the most nonsexual setting possible is somehow unacceptable.

But by only presenting half of the story – the rewards without the strife – something which social media explicitly and implicitly encourages, we are all misrepresenting the expectations for both our peers and younger women looking at our lives.

Each and every fault can be erased and replaced with new and increasingly homogenous upgrades to make you feel like the very best version of yourself

selective disclosure.

endorsement from others made them more likely to offer validation to others.

So the identity you formulate online actually becomes your personal key into this matrix.