added by Emilie Kormienko and · updated 1y ago
Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds
- If someone you know, like, and trust believes a radical idea, you are more likely to give it merit, weight, or consideration. You already agree with them in most areas of life. Maybe you should change your mind on this one too. But if someone wildly different than you proposes the same radical idea, well, it's easy to dismiss them as a crackpot.
from Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds by James Clear
Emilie Kormienko added 2y ago
- False beliefs can be useful in a social sense even if they are not useful in a factual sense. For lack of a better phrase, we might call this approach “factually false, but socially accurate.” When we have to choose between the two, people often select friends and family over facts.
from Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds by James Clear
Emilie Kormienko added 2y ago
- “Always remember that to argue, and win, is to break down the reality of the person you are arguing against. It is painful to lose your reality, so be kind, even if you are right.”
from Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds by James Clear
Isaac Feldman added 1y ago
- Your time is better spent championing good ideas than tearing down bad ones. Don't waste time explaining why bad ideas are bad. You are simply fanning the flame of ignorance and stupidity.
from Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds by James Clear
Emilie Kormienko added 2y ago
- The way to change people’s minds is to become friends with them, to integrate them into your tribe, to bring them into your circle. Now, they can change their beliefs without the risk of being abandoned socially.
from Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds by James Clear
Emilie Kormienko added 2y ago
- Perhaps it is not difference, but distance that breeds tribalism and hostility. As proximity increases, so does understanding. I am reminded of Abraham Lincoln's quote, “I don't like that man. I must get to know him better.” Facts don't change our minds. Friendship does.
from Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds by James Clear
Emilie Kormienko added 2y ago
- The brilliant Japanese writer Haruki Murakami once wrote, “Always remember that to argue, and win, is to break down the reality of the person you are arguing against. It is painful to lose your reality, so be kind, even if you are right.”
from Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds by James Clear
Emilie Kormienko added 2y ago
- Any idea that is sufficiently different from your current worldview will feel threatening. And the best place to ponder a threatening idea is in a non-threatening environment. As a result, books are often a better vehicle for transforming beliefs than conversations or debates.
from Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds by James Clear
Emilie Kormienko added 2y ago
- Silence is death for any idea. An idea that is never spoken or written down dies with the person who conceived it. Ideas can only be remembered when they are repeated. They can only be believed when they are repeated.
from Why Facts Don’t Change Our Minds by James Clear
Emilie Kormienko added 2y ago