When I Married My Mother: A Daughter's Search for What Really Matters - and How She Found It Caring for Mama Jo
Jo Maederamazon.com
When I Married My Mother: A Daughter's Search for What Really Matters - and How She Found It Caring for Mama Jo
She then transferred her idealization onto her son and conscripted him into being her replacement “emotional husband.” She told him that he was “Mommy’s little man” and implied that he was somehow better than his father.
Now I know that when I feel tempted to lose myself in a relationship, my inner child is yearning for the parental approval she never received. I am her source of validation, not anyone else.
As I will explain in the chapters that follow, many don’t dare to uncover the painful truth of what was missing in their mothers because they are unprepared to deal with what this would mean.