whatever happened to fucking around and finding out?
Part of dating now is knowing that everyone is afraid of being cancelled or called a creep or narcissist while in the dangerous magnificent throes of sex and romance and you have to treat everyone like a traumatized animal and repeat over and over that you will not kill them for telling the truth or not knowing what they want or changing their mind... See more
sigh swoonx.comThere is a good deal of implicit sentiment around relationships that troubles me, because it assumes a fundamentally defensive posture: You have to be happy first, you should date around a lot, you should reject quickly and on small pretenses, you shouldn’t take dating too seriously, etc. For some even attachment is a dirty word! 1 All of this is... See more
Simon Sarris • quests, failure, desire
