What Brazil taught me about sex , sexuality and hookup culture
Queerness is located not just inside me but also interpersonally, in the dynamics I seek and feel seen by. I have stopped sleeping with my friends with as much frequency, but sexual desire is no longer feared or categorically denied in our relationships. I now live with my closest friends from childhood. We met at eleven, we were children together
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Midway through sophomore year, my relationship with M fell apart, and I entered a prolonged episode of acute anxiety. My anxious thoughts again centered around my sexuality, and the potentially closeted nature of it. I had asked him once, desperately, “But what if I’m secretly attracted to all my friends?” He looked at me, bewildered: “You
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Cultivating secure sexuality is learning to stay with a broken heart about your gender, sexuality, and relationships without panicking. You will find your sexual awakening by learning how to be with the nuance and unpredictability of you. Secure sexuality is an orientation to your sex and/or love life that starts with the assumption that you are
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