
Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion

Socrates feared that the act of writing would “create forgetfulness in the learners’ souls.”
Jia Tolentino • Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion
It is nearly impossible, today, to separate engagement from magnification.
Jia Tolentino • Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion
But literary children are the only characters I’ve ever really identified with.
Jia Tolentino • Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion
Identified with western characters
These deranged takes, and their unnerving proximity to online monetization, are case studies in the way that our world—digitally mediated, utterly consumed by capitalism—makes communication about morality very easy but makes actual moral living very hard. You don’t end up using a news story about a dead toddler as a peg for white entitlement withou
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today we mostly consume news that corresponds with our ideological alignment, which has been fine-tuned to make us feel self-righteous and also mad.
Jia Tolentino • Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion
The internet is engineered for this sort of misrepresentation; it’s designed to encourage us to create certain impressions rather than allowing these impressions to arise “as an incidental by-product of [our] activity.” This is why, with the internet, it’s so easy to stop trying to be decent, or reasonable, or politically engaged—and start trying m
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The heroine’s journey, or her lack of one, serves as a reminder that whatever is dictated is not eternal, not predestined, not necessarily true.
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Hero vs heroine's journey
you’re the kind of person who thinks that putting in expensive hard work for a high-functioning, maximally attractive consumer existence is about as good a way to pass your time on earth as there
Jia Tolentino • Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion
each closing has been a reminder that an open-ended, affinity-based, generative online identity is hard to keep alive.