Three New People: Make the Most of Your Daily Interactions and Stop Missing Amazing Opportunities
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Three New People: Make the Most of Your Daily Interactions and Stop Missing Amazing Opportunities
Do you find yourself interrupting, cutting off, or talking over somebody out of passion or enthusiasm?
emotional perspectives are not rational. The feeling of not being heard or understood is supremely powerful.
When you reflect on what somebody has just said to you, be sure to reflect on what it means to them.
Are you giving them space to think, consider, and respond? Have you turned the conversation over to them recently to get their opinion or contribution?
Write It Down Lastly, never underestimate the power of writing things down. I am not afforded the opportunity to do this as a performer, but I use it regularly in my personal and professional life off-stage. I have found it is always a good idea to keep a notepad handy.
Introverts make up nearly half of the American population, which means that there are an awful lot of people you talk to on a daily basis that need you to work harder at this.
There is a traditional saying in the entertainment industry: if the audience likes you, then they will like anything that you do.
I approach every conversation like there is an impossible thing waiting to happen. That something incredible can come out of every chance encounter, and any routine interaction.
My ability to connect with people is best when I don’t lead with “I’m a magician.” Instead, I talk about my values and beliefs. Here’s how I would order the information as a networking event: I believe that everyone should feel heard, understood, and valued. I work with people and organizations on creating events that connect, engage, and entertain
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