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The Workplace Runs on Dysregulated Women
A regulated woman pauses and gets curious. She stops absorbing what does not belong to her. That pivot is often misread as disengagement, even though it represents the return of agency.
Substack • The Workplace Runs on Dysregulated Women
Contemporary systems are organized around managed dysregulation. Long hours are framed as dedication. Chronic urgency is treated as leadership and rapid context switching is interpreted as competence. Emotional labor is absorbed quietly and continuously, particularly by women who know how to keep things from falling apart.
What often goes unnamed is
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Regulation changed everything, not because it made life easier, but because it restored access to truth.
Substack • The Workplace Runs on Dysregulated Women
Regulation restores choice, and choice alters power dynamics.
Substack • The Workplace Runs on Dysregulated Women
People operating just below the threshold of collapse often give more, tolerate more, and push back less. High-performing women, caregivers, and leaders who have been rewarded for holding complexity become especially valuable in these conditions. Their competence masks the cost until the cost becomes unavoidable.
Substack • The Workplace Runs on Dysregulated Women
My body was not an obstacle to ambition, but the barometer for what sustainable ambition could look like now.
Substack • The Workplace Runs on Dysregulated Women
The modern workplace depends on a particular kind of nervous system, even though it rarely names it.
It rewards people who can override fatigue, suppress internal signals, absorb urgency, and continue producing as though none of that has a cost. It privileges those who recover quickly without recovery, who remain responsive under pressure, and who
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Regulation isn’t self-care . It’s not a wellness accessory or a personality trait. It’s capacity . It governs access to discernment, creativity, authority, and sustained contribution. A chronically dysregulated nervous system narrows perception and constrains choice. It increases reactivity and encourages compliance. It makes endurance feel
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I am not less capable because I refuse to live in constant activation. I’m just less exploitable.