
The Way of Integrity: Finding the path to your true self

The body’s reaction to recognizing truth is relaxation, a literal, involuntary release of muscle tension.
Martha Beck • The Way of Integrity: Finding the path to your true self
Of all the strategies and skills I’ve ever learned, the ones that actually work are those that help people see where they’ve abandoned their own deep sense of truth and followed some other set of directives.
Martha Beck • The Way of Integrity: Finding the path to your true self
listening to our inner teacher is the most important skill we need to follow the way of integrity.
Martha Beck • The Way of Integrity: Finding the path to your true self
“I thought working hard and providing for my family was the right thing, but I feel so empty.” A few of these people are clinically depressed or physically sick. But mostly, they’re just lost.
Martha Beck • The Way of Integrity: Finding the path to your true self
never experiencing the joyful ease that comes with full integrity.
Martha Beck • The Way of Integrity: Finding the path to your true self
At the heart of climbing Mount Delectable is what psychologists call “social comparison theory.” It means that we tend to measure our own well-being not by how we feel, but by how our lives compare to other people’s.
Martha Beck • The Way of Integrity: Finding the path to your true self
Over and over, we’d talked about the fact that he was happiest doing simple things, like hiking.
Martha Beck • The Way of Integrity: Finding the path to your true self
Both had split themselves by aspiring to do things that, at another level, they knew they hated.
Martha Beck • The Way of Integrity: Finding the path to your true self
Everything in and around us is negatively affected when we lose integrity.