The Third Perspective

While it may seem like you’re protecting yourself from potential criticism or conflict, in reality, you’re stifling your own growth and authenticity.

In a world where “Educate yourself!” has become a substitute for helping someone gain clarity on a topic, there’s a growing desire for balance, empathy, and real-world solutions.

As you begin to understand and enjoy your own complexity, you’ll feel a profound shift in your interactions with others. You’ll find yourself approaching conversations with curiosity, rather than judgment. You’ll appreciate diversity in thoughts and opinions, instead of seeing them as threats to your own beliefs or feeling the pressure to agree. Yo

Self-censorship, on the other hand, is when you silence your own voice and hold back thoughts, feelings, or knowledge out of fear, doubt, or the desire to fit in.

Life is much more enjoyable when you live it as though you’ve already been canceled.

had unknowingly neglected my innate curiosity, empathy, and understanding—especially when it meant understanding viewpoints that didn’t align with my agenda. In my quest to be perceived as a “good” person, I had forgotten how to be a fully rounded human being, one who recognizes their own flaws as well as those of others.

to support you in returning to life’s rich complexity—which includes being rooted in the realization that people contain multitudes and can surprise you, especially when offered the grace to reveal themselves.

Shouldn’t we concentrate more on making things right and mending relationships, instead of putting all our energy into getting even and penalizing wrongs?

understanding isn’t synonymous with acceptance.