The Soulmate Experience: A Practical Guide to Creating Extraordinary Relationships

An authentic desire never seeks to restrict, inhibit, or restrain another person in any way. An authentic desire has no “should” quality to it.

“I nurture our relationship to ensure we preserve this very special thing we have.” “I bring inspiration and motivation to our relationship to keep it exciting and alive.” “I believe that everything in our relationship will serve us in some way.”

Your Partner’s Actions Don’t Mean Anything About Your Value

“I use everything that happens to bring us closer together.”

when you understand that your expectations are essentially choices you’re making about how to relate to others, simply being aware of them will begin to lessen their impact.

Being open and accepting is precisely what a higher state of consciousness is.

So what can we trust our partner to do? For one thing, we can trust them to behave in a manner that’s consistent with their own beliefs and desires. We can trust them to make choices and decisions based on what they want. We can trust that whatever they do, it will be the best they can do at the time.

Your inner wisdom deserves your trust. If you get an intuitive feeling that someone or something is unsafe or otherwise not right for you, learn to listen to and investigate that feeling.

If you really want to create a soulmate experience, it’s essential to examine the reasons why you are in a relationship or are looking for one. It can be revealing to write down exactly what you hope to get from a relationship. Once you’ve made your list, review it to see if there are any indications of things you believe you need from a partner or